7 proven tips to better relationship

Why you think you always end up alone

 Whenever I look at my parents, they make me believe that soulmate exists. The kind of love, trust and mutual understanding they have for last 25 years, is rarely seen now a days. The way they have managed to deal problems throughout by holding each other's hand, make me wonder how is it possible to love someone this much?

When I asked my mother about it, she told me that love is just not enough to take a relationship so long. The way a car must need 4 tyres to move, similarly every relationship need 7 wheels to work. Here, I am sharing those 7 secrets of my mom to make a relationship better and understanding than ever.

1. Make efforts

A lot of people believe that love should always be natural and organic process. But this is not how it works in real life. Naturally, people fall in love with those, who continuously shower their love without any expectations. Efforts are the only reason you love your family even after so many clashes and uncountable fights. So, never be afraid of making efforts.

2. Change yourself, not your partner

There might be some differences between you and partner, some of your partner’s habit may go against your ethics. This doesn’t mean you should push them to change. Everyone has some good and bad inside, just look at yourself! Are you perfect? Come On! No one is. Therefore, instead of pushing someone, push yourself to accept them as they are.

3. Invest time together

What is the most expensive thing you can gift your partner? A Diamond ring…no! A Rolex watch!!...not at all, It’s Your Time!!! Ever ask your partner the thing he/she wants forever, the answer will be you. Therefore, make sure to gift your precious time to your partner.

4. Understand words and silence too

 Biggest problem arrises in relationships are misunderstandings. And the main reason behind it, is either the misunderstood words or unheard silence. You should do all the necessary efforts to build your bond so strong, that none of you can misunderstand each other’s words and can even hear the silence.

5. Prioritise it

Yes! This one is VERY IMPORTANT. You may have work, ambitions, goals, friends etc. to come first, but if you are in a relationship, it must be your priority. Remember “No pain, No gain,” if you want the gain of love in a relationship, you have to bear the pain of keeping everything else secondary. There is no other way.

6. Keep sorry and thank you over I love you.

I love you has magical power, but same magic never amazes every time. People have mug it up so well that, apologies and thankfulness in their dictionary got replaced by it. But its high time to realise that I love you is not an antidote, but the politeness one shows while saying sorry and thank you has healing powers. 

That’s it . Just Mug up! all these tips by my mother and turn your relationship to forever .